Life is so frustrating. And social media can be so depressing. Don't let what they show in social media affect your life exaggeratedly. Live your own life. Create your own boundary. There's no such thing as relationship goals if you set other people's relationship as your goal. There's no such thing as life goals if you make other people's success as your life goal. Because we all know that there are obstacles and hard work that must be passed before and I'm pretty sure you don't want to make it your "obstacle goals" too.
Set your own goals. Take the risks. Don't let the seeds stop you from enjoying your watermelon. Keep going and let time makes all your hard work paid off.